How to switch off unwanted thoughts
Nearly every problem
in the world today can be traced back to one cause. That is the excessive
thinking of an individual and the failure to switch off the thoughts. The three
groups of defilement - greed, anger and delusion - that all Buddhists know well
cannot happen on their own. They can only come with a transporter and that is
thought.
The owner of the
thought which carries greed who fails to stop it will certainly respond to his
or her greedy thought, which depends on what and how much he or she craves.
People who have less greed will grab less whilst those who have more greed will
naturally grab more. Mahatama Gandhi said that the natural resources in the
world are enough to feed every single human on earth but they are not enough to
satisfy just one greedy person. We only need to look around and we know that
Gandhi was quite right. Poverty in the world is certainly man-made. This world
has only a few wealthy people who can engineer the destiny of so many things
and events as well as their own wealth. As for thought which carries anger and
hatred with it, we all know what such destructive thought is capable of and can
lead to. When people cannot switch off their angry thoughts, they subsequently
cannot stop their boiling angry feeling.[1]
The owner of that angry thought will be forced to respond and react to whatever
his or her thought tells him or her to do. A much lesser degree is merely a
touch of resentment in the owner’s heart, which develops into arguments between
two persons, to being violent towards other person, to committing different
levels of crime leading finally to the extreme degree of causing a war. The
greedy thought and the angry thought are related by nature in that if we cannot
have what we want or crave for, we get angry. However, both greedy and angry
thoughts are overruled by delusion. Delusive thought, as it is described, does
not have a distinctive nature like
greed and anger. Nonetheless, delusion reflects itself in the following
thoughts and feelings e.g. embarrassment, uncertainty, doubt, insecurity,
discontentment, boredom and fear. Among those feelings, fear is the worst of
all e.g. fear of ghosts, poverty, being laughed at, ageing, illness, death,
etc.
We all know as well that
if we do not think about our problems, we won’t have problems. The trouble is
we cannot switch our thoughts off and therefore we cannot solve our problems.
The persistent thought itself becomes the problem in which we are trapped and
which forms a vicious circle. As a result, people seek their way out in all
sorts of ways so that they can stop thinking about their problems. If the
problem is not a major one, people can go out, enjoy themselves and soon forget
about the problem. If the problem is serious, people need to take some stronger
measure to stop thinking about their problems and the most popular solution is
anti-depressant drugs, although a great number in our modern society choose to
take illegal drugs. Eating disorders and heavy drinking are also alternative
ways that many people choose so that they can stop thinking. If all those
measures fail to work, many people have no choice but use the ultimate
solution, suicide. There is no doubt that depression is one of the most common
illnesses of our modern society. This serious mental condition which hits one
in four Britons, costs Britain more than 8 billion pounds a year in health
care, loss of productivity and social security benefit. The World Health
organisation predicts that in 20 years’ time depression will be the second most
burdensome illness in the world.[2]
Every day, we hear the
phrase “don’t think about it”. We are either the one who dishes out the
precious advice or we take the advice ourselves. We all know that it is easier
said than done especially if we are on the side of taking the advice. None of
us want to keep our painful, unpleasant and disturbing thoughts. When we are
face to face with the bombarding thoughts shooting at us like machine guns, we
are all powerless. This is the condition that the Buddha compared to dust being
trapped in a cart’s wheel. To free ourselves from that vicious circle is the
most difficult task on earth. Without the help of the Buddha, we are all still
being trapped in the cart’s wheel for as long as it takes. However, the sad
truth is that the majority of people in the world still do not know that there
is indeed a way out of that vicious circle. This is the main reason for all
these words.
Temple-goers nowadays
are being looked at as those who have personal problems and that’s why they
need to seek help from monks. Very few people can link their mental illness
(due to being unable to stop the unwanted thoughts) to the enlightenment of the
Buddha. As a matter of fact, the enlightenment of the Buddha can directly help
us to cure this most fundamental problem; that is to be able to stop thinking
when we want to. To see the state of Nirvana or ultimate truth is a direct
matter of finding stability for the mind and indeed about dealing with
thoughts. The four foundations of awareness or vipassana-bhavana is the exact
practice of creating a new mental habit. That is the habit of switching off unwanted or rubbish thoughts, at
the same time generating useful and creative thoughts. This is exactly the
mental habit that people do not have and is the root cause of all problems in
the world today. People do not realise that letting our minds drift away with
thoughts, imagination, fantasy and dreams is a bad mental habit which needs to
be corrected. People may ask, what is wrong with having fantasies, dreams and
imagination? Let’s not mention the positive dreams, fantasy and imagination
which can brighten the world up but look closely at the negative ones. I am
sure that at least once in our lives, we all have had some weird (waking)
dream, fantasy or imagination. In fact, once in our lives is an extreme
understatement just in case someone might say I have never had one, because a
great number of people are literally living in their dream, fantasy and
imagination all the time. The next thing is the degree of weirdness which adds
to the shocking result. I am sure readers begin to get the picture of crimes
relating to bizarre fantasy. Paedophile and serial killers are the obvious
examples of people who cannot stop thinking about their weird fantasy. As for
the two teenagers who have just gunned down 15 youngsters in a high school
including themselves: this was also the result of being unable to stop their
hate-filled thoughts, plus a few other factors which made the massacre become
possible. One main factor is Hollywood which helped to build the fantasy of
killing people they hated just like their stars did in the films they idolised.
Another main factor is that guns are available items in America. If those two
boys were in Britain, that chilling incident might not have happened because
they would not have been able to get hold of guns so easily. Another crucial
factor to make this crime so horrendous is the Internet. I don’t know whether I
should use the term fortunate or unfortunate that our modern society has such a
high technology as the Internet which was meant to unite humanity. Now, we can
see the very dark side of this technology. Without the Internet, the two boys
would not have had the easiest access to the resources of how to make bombs.
However, we must understand that Hollywood, the gun law in the US and the
Internet are only subsequent factors which make the weird fantasy become
possible. The root of this problem still comes back to the failure to switch
off weird and destructive thoughts. This is how dangerous this bad mental habit
can be. The suffering of people in the world today is the sheer result of all
our bad mental habits which we not only inflict upon ourselves but also on others. The trouble is we
don’t need that many people to exercise their destructive fantasy to cause mayhem. The heart-wrenching plight of
the Bosnian refugees right now is caused by just one person. During the past
fifty years, five key persons were responsible for the tragic death of approximately
50 million innocent people or more. We must not take this bad mental habit too
lightly.
The bad mental habit
(drifting away with thoughts and fantasy) is not something that people can
easily detect and put right by themselves. We even know that biting finger
nails is a bad physical habit and it is difficult to change even though we can
see what is happening. What chance do we have to change our mental habits which
are something we cannot see. In the end, we must admit that we need help. The
arrival of all great teachers in the past, the Buddha and Christ for example,
was meant for this very purpose, but we cannot understand those holy words well
enough to gain the benefit from them and turn to other forms of refuge instead.
This is a great shame!
I am doing my best to
make things simpler for people. To get right to the point, the four foundations
of awareness are about correcting our mental habits until we can truly find our
real mental freedom. People who have never heard of the four foundations of
awareness should quickly find experts and learn from them.
[1] While I am writing this
article, the American people are trying to come to terms once again with the
massacre at a High School in Corolado which left 15 people dead and many more
injured. This bloodbath was the sixth such event spreading over the past 18
months in America.
[2] Daily Mail Thursday 22
April 1999 page 15